Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Multi-point System
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- Author：Bat Sheva Marcus
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Summary
In this refreshingly honest book， the "Queen of Vibrators" and the "Orthodox Sex Guru" shares her easy， proven system to help women have a healthy， robust sex life。 Myth: Great sex comes naturally， and when it doesn’t， there is something wrong。
Fact: Sex is a gift that takes work。 Like exercise or eating right， it also takes practice and know-how。
“Queen of Vibrators” Dr。 Bat Sheva Marcus believes a healthy， robust， fulfilling sex life is a right for all women。 And after twenty years as a sex therapist， Dr。 Bat Sheva knows that there’s more to sex than lingerie and beach vacations。 Sex Points is the first book that helps you identify and analyze for yourself what factors are affecting your sex life。 Using Dr。 Bat Sheva’s revolutionary Sex Points Assessment， you can pinpoint what’s keeping you from the great sex you deserve by looking at where you’re scoring low in four key areas: pain， arousal， libido， and orgasm。 And then she’ll help you get points back in each of those areas！
Your sex life is complex， unique to you， and affected by psychological， medical， and emotional variables。 If you think that a diminished sex drive is natural， pain is expected， and no orgasms is no problem—prepare to have your world rocked。
Covering everything from how to choose a vibrator to recapturing orgasms， understanding hormones， to rekindling lust， embracing taboo fantasies， and parsing complicated relationships， to what sex really means （hint: it's not just intercourse）， Sex Points is a comprehensive， revelatory， I-didn’t-know-it-could-be-this-good guide for every woman， at every age， in every situation。
A Fun， Healthy， Fulfilling Sex Life is Your Right！
And Sex Points will get you there。
Fact: Sex is a gift that takes work。 Like exercise or eating right， it also takes practice and know-how。
“Queen of Vibrators” Dr。 Bat Sheva Marcus believes a healthy， robust， fulfilling sex life is a right for all women。 And after twenty years as a sex therapist， Dr。 Bat Sheva knows that there’s more to sex than lingerie and beach vacations。 Sex Points is the first book that helps you identify and analyze for yourself what factors are affecting your sex life。 Using Dr。 Bat Sheva’s revolutionary Sex Points Assessment， you can pinpoint what’s keeping you from the great sex you deserve by looking at where you’re scoring low in four key areas: pain， arousal， libido， and orgasm。 And then she’ll help you get points back in each of those areas！
Your sex life is complex， unique to you， and affected by psychological， medical， and emotional variables。 If you think that a diminished sex drive is natural， pain is expected， and no orgasms is no problem—prepare to have your world rocked。
Covering everything from how to choose a vibrator to recapturing orgasms， understanding hormones， to rekindling lust， embracing taboo fantasies， and parsing complicated relationships， to what sex really means （hint: it's not just intercourse）， Sex Points is a comprehensive， revelatory， I-didn’t-know-it-could-be-this-good guide for every woman， at every age， in every situation。
A Fun， Healthy， Fulfilling Sex Life is Your Right！
And Sex Points will get you there。
Reviews
Sarah
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Read this book。 Lots of great information。 The only reason it lost a star was the point system got a little confusing。
Bailey
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Bat Sheva Marcus's book stands apart from other books about sex for women because it frankly discusses all the aspects that can affect a woman's sex life over the course of her life - notably pain。 It's rare for literature around sex to directly examine how sexual pain can affect the other areas of your life （like your desire， arousal， and orgasms） and how all these elements overlap and bleed into each other。 The book is full of pragmatic and specific solutions to a whole range of issues and Bat Bat Sheva Marcus's book stands apart from other books about sex for women because it frankly discusses all the aspects that can affect a woman's sex life over the course of her life - notably pain。 It's rare for literature around sex to directly examine how sexual pain can affect the other areas of your life （like your desire， arousal， and orgasms） and how all these elements overlap and bleed into each other。 The book is full of pragmatic and specific solutions to a whole range of issues and Bat Sheva's voice is funny and warm， like a friend who's got the real facts on every issue you might find yourself wondering about。 She explores everything from medicines to treatments to behavioral changes you can make to deal with a range of common issues that arise with concrete scientific facts and proven strategies she's learned from working with hundreds of patients over the years。I'd highly recommend this book to any woman - chances are at SOME point in your sexual life， you'll need it。 。。。more
Shoshi Singer
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Loved this！ Fun & informative。 Recommended to all my buds。
Alex
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Think of Sex Points as a manual for your sex life。 Dr。 Bat Sheva Marcus puts forth the idea that the aspects of sex life can be divided into four quadrants， each with a fluctuating points level。 If you have lots of points in all the quadrants， you’re probably happy with your sex life， and if you’re struggling， you can look at your points in different quadrants to get to the root of the issue。 With twenty years as a sex therapist and tons of clients， she’s had time to refine this theory into a bo Think of Sex Points as a manual for your sex life。 Dr。 Bat Sheva Marcus puts forth the idea that the aspects of sex life can be divided into four quadrants， each with a fluctuating points level。 If you have lots of points in all the quadrants， you’re probably happy with your sex life， and if you’re struggling， you can look at your points in different quadrants to get to the root of the issue。 With twenty years as a sex therapist and tons of clients， she’s had time to refine this theory into a book primarily geared towards vagina-havers。This book begins with a quiz。 Well， it begins with an intro， immediately followed by a quiz。 A little thing that I absolutely loved: Dr。 Bat Sheva includes a link to take the quiz online for those of us who hate to write in books/doing math/finding a pencil。 I really enjoyed reading the theory behind her points system， and her writing style is very accessible。 This book is designed like a user manual， and even tells you which chapters to read if you want to work on gaining points in the different quadrants。 You can read the sections you need， when you need them。 Overall， I would recommend this to anyone looking to learn more about their sex life and all of the different factors that affect it。 Sex Points is available now！ Thank you to @hachettego for sharing a copy in exchange for my honest review。 You can purchase your own copy of Sex Points on Bookshop。org through the link in my bio！ ✨Follow me on Instagram & Twitter @whatalexreads for book reviews， recommendations， and more！ 。。。more
Y。 Schwartz
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Both terrifically comprehensive and eminently accessible。 This book covers a huge amount of ground -- surveying the spectrum of women's sexual challenges， and also offering practical advice for tackling and resolving those challenges。 Marcus also brings a "whole person" approach， addressing medical， psychological， and emotional dimensions。 And somehow， the writing is lively， warm， and approachable throughout。 Informative， practical， and reassuring。 Both terrifically comprehensive and eminently accessible。 This book covers a huge amount of ground -- surveying the spectrum of women's sexual challenges， and also offering practical advice for tackling and resolving those challenges。 Marcus also brings a "whole person" approach， addressing medical， psychological， and emotional dimensions。 And somehow， the writing is lively， warm， and approachable throughout。 Informative， practical， and reassuring。 。。。more
Lydia Wallace
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This book is a great book。 I wish I had known this information earlier and later in my life。 As you age sometimes your sex life just dies and you allow it too。 You are never too old to get your groove on by using new techniques。 This has changed my life and made my husband and I a lot happier。 You are never too old to learn new tricks。 A great sex life makes for a happier marriage and life。 Bravo to a great Doctor。 Waiting for your next bag of tricks。 LOL。
M。
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It was a good read。
E。 Schwartz
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This book takes on a lot of complex problems。 Dr。 Bat Sheva's clear style takes the mystery out of sexual problems。 Then she goes on to explain how to go about fixing them。 Dr。 Bat Sheva's voice in the book is just like her voice on the air: earnest and warm， like she really knows you and really cares。 There is something in here for everyone， if not now， then sooner or later。 I'm glad I have this on my shelf--to refer back to and share。 This book takes on a lot of complex problems。 Dr。 Bat Sheva's clear style takes the mystery out of sexual problems。 Then she goes on to explain how to go about fixing them。 Dr。 Bat Sheva's voice in the book is just like her voice on the air: earnest and warm， like she really knows you and really cares。 There is something in here for everyone， if not now， then sooner or later。 I'm glad I have this on my shelf--to refer back to and share。 。。。more
Susan Bernard
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Exceptional book that really looks at all of the different aspects of your sex life and provides actionable ways to improve it。 And because our sex lives change over time， I can see this book being an invaluable resource that I'll refer back to for years to come。 Exceptional book that really looks at all of the different aspects of your sex life and provides actionable ways to improve it。 And because our sex lives change over time， I can see this book being an invaluable resource that I'll refer back to for years to come。 。。。more
P Katz
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Reading "Sex Points" by Dr。 Bat Sheva Marcus is like having a best friend who's really thoughtful and insightful about sex and our bodies。 This book covers so many topics I was too afraid to even discuss with anyone but reading through this book helped me in ways I didn't even know I needed！ Reading "Sex Points" by Dr。 Bat Sheva Marcus is like having a best friend who's really thoughtful and insightful about sex and our bodies。 This book covers so many topics I was too afraid to even discuss with anyone but reading through this book helped me in ways I didn't even know I needed！ 。。。more
Dara
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